NIGE 54's TOP 5 DATING TIPS FOR MEN
- Successful dating starts with the right mindset. It is essential that you are confident, well presented, energetic, slightly cheeky, can provide entertaining conversation and are willing to show a genuine interest in the woman you are speaking to. This mindset must be the cornerstone to your existence.
- Your communication etiquette should be first class. Therefore after taking a woman's number, call her when you say you are going to call. But as things progress, vary your call frequency (you're a busy guy!), avoid the drunken dial (you are not a desperado!) and always remember that text messaging is for wussies only.
- Have a plan because women love it when they do not have to organise anything. You are the man and therefore you should never have to ask a woman "What do you think we should do?" because you, as the masculine being, already know where you are going, what you are doing and what time you will be meeting. However, do not arrange to 'meet for coffee' or 'do lunch'. Leave the coffees and lunches for your business relationships and instead meet for drinks at a cool bar or partake in an activity you both enjoy.
- Do not try and buy her affection. It will not work and will only result in a severe reduction in your bank balance. Dating should be fun, stimulating and most importantly, affordable. Take turns buying rounds of drinks but in doing so, control your alcohol intake because remember, James Bond only needed one martini before the action would start!
- At any stage throughout the dating process, being a wussy nice guy will only result in you finishing last all of the time. By the same token, being a macho bad boy is so last century. Yes, the 21st Century Alpha Male is a confident, driven individual with a strong spine who understands his mission in life - but he also has a heart.
| NIGE 54's TOP 5 DATING TIPS FOR WOMEN
- There is a reason why you continue to attract the same loser guys. So rather than asking, "Why can't I find my ideal man?" ask yourself, "Who do I need to become in order to attract my ideal man?" In other words, what do YOU need to change about yourself so that YOU can attract the man of your dreams?
- If you are not attracted to the guy you are speaking to, you have an inability to answer your phone or you think that any unknown number that appears on your caller ID is your imaginary stalker, then DO NOT give out your number. It is a simple rule that all women need to abide by until they are ready for the responsibilities of dating.
- Good communication etiquette is essential to successful dating. So when a guy calls, answer the phone or return his phonecall within 24 hours. These days, quality men are being taught to have a number of options so they do not have time for your 'playing hard to get' routine. Therefore, if you do not reciprocate his interest, he will move on and you will miss out.
- Rather than agreeing to date a guy who 'seems nice', set yourself some actual criteria. Ask yourself, was there any chemistry, does he make you laugh, was he confident, masculine, entertaining, sexy? (Or whatever qualities are important to you at this point in time). Do not waste your time trying to transform an average guy into your ideal man - it never works.
- Despite what you may think you are not a replica of Carrie Bradshaw, you are not living in New York City and your life does not resemble 'Sex and the City'. So drop the attitude, leave your failed relationships behind and stop believing that the world revolves around you. Instead, open your heart and your mind and you will be surprised to discover how many first class men are out there looking for a quality woman to rock their world.
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